A lady by the name of KARI BOYER shared this on her Facebook page and it has been shared over 244 thousand times and counting…
I thought this post was amazing! Here is it… I will share my thoughts in it at the end!
******🔴Young ladies, when the season of life comes and you’re starting to pray for a spouse to spend your life with… pray for the kind of man that will lay next to your future 13yr old, on the bathroom floor praying over her because she can’t keep a drop of water down. Pray for a man that will carry her down the stairs, to the car and spend all night in the hospital by her side. Pray for a spouse that will consistently put you and your children first, above himself- but NOT above the Lord.
Pray for a spouse that will wake up at 6:30am on Sunday and get his family around and lead them to the House of God. Because, if he can wake up at 4:30am on Saturday to hunt… he can wake up at 6:30 on Sunday to lead his family to salvation. 👏🏻
Young lady, trust me when I tell you, that after 15 years of marriage, 3 kids and a baby in Heaven, many devastating trials and lots of heartache- you need to make sure that the man you give your life to, is the man God has sent you.
Do. Not. Settle.
No amount of waiting for a husband is worse than settling for the wrong spouse and losing years of your life living outside of the will of God.
Just wait. And while you wait, pray that the Lord would not only prepare your future spouse, but that He would prepare you to be the kind of wife He is leading you to be.
Wait for the one God has for you. Don’t give pieces of yourself away to every man that crosses your path and shows you a little affection.🔴******
‼️‼️🔴🔴 MY THOUGHTS🔴🔴‼️‼️
This hit home for me as a believer in Christ and as a woman in general. It makes you think…”Am I praying the right prayers for my future spouse?” “Am I just chasing a “Physical” attraction, or am I aiming for the HEART of him?!?
When I say “Aiming for the HEART of him, I’m referring to the type of heart he have! Sometimes we can pray, “Lord give me 6 figures, 6pack, etc but forget to pray for a man after Gods own heart!
Trust me, it makes a difference.
The heart of God is
❤️Keep No Record of Wrongs
& Sooo much more✨💫
I am guilty of praying the wrong prayers and settling in my lifetime… I know I’m not the only one🤦🏽♀️ I’m definitely not proud of it😑
Part of that problem is wanting God to bless what we want, as opposed to asking the Lord what HE wants for us. The great Bishop TD JAKES just preached a message this Sunday and talked about “GETTING IN GODS PATH”‼️‼️‼️
When we are in HIS PATH, we flow into HIS PLANS, HIS WAYS… we start to experience the BEST from GOD! See what makes her post so amazing is the fact that she waited for a man who didn’t just “SPEAK” but a man who showed “ACTION”! This picture above displays so much about “HIS HEART”❤️❤️
Ladies‼️‼️ Now is not the time, nor is ANY time the right time to settle for anything less than what the Lord wants for us. Settling for “quick” fixes in relationships because we are desperate will get us a “desperate man” and those are no fun…. take it from me😂😂😂
LET THAT GO SIS🙌🏽🙌🏽
‼️‼️2020 -WE AIMING FOR …‼️‼️
❤️CLEAR VISION FROM THE LORD
❤️EARS TO HEAR HIS VOICE
❤️EXTRA PRAYER TO BE IN ALIGNMENT WITH “HIM” IN THIS SEASON
❤️YELLING A LOUD “NO” TO THE DEVIL & GETTING CONTROL OF THE “SINS” IN OUR LIVES
❤️DIGGING DEEP INTO HIS WORD TO GET FRESH REVELATION FROM “HIM”
❤️GETTING BACK ON COURSE & STAYING ON COURSE NO MATTER WHAT
PRAYER:FATHER GOD BLESS THE PERSON READING THIS! HELP US TO UNDERSTAND THE IMPORTANCE OF PATIENTLY WAITING FOR THE “ONE”. WE DONT WANT QUICK FIXES LORD, WE WANT WHAT YOU DESIGNED FOR US, BUT WHEN YOU DO IT, IT WILL BE WELL DONE! WE ARE NOT SAYING WE WILL NOT HAVE ISSUES LORD, BUT AT LEAST WE CAN “LONG SUFFER” WITH THE RIGHT ONE AS OPPOSED TO THE WRONG ONE! HEAL OUR BROKEN HEARTS, AND CLEAR OUT ANYTHING IN OUR LIVES THAT WILL TEMP US TO SETTLE FOR LESS THAN WE DESERVE! REMOVE OUR FEARS OF THE UNKNOWN, AND HELP US TO KNOW THAT AS LONG AS WE ARE IN YOUR HANDS–NOTHING ELSE MATTERS! WE CAN REST IN YOUR ARMS KNOWING THAT YOU GOT US NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS. & RIGHT NOW WE LIFT UP OUR FUTURE SPOUSES TO YOU LORD, WE ARE NOT CHASING “LOOKS” BUT WE DESIRE A MAN AFTER YOUR OWN HEART! SOMEONE WHO WILL BE A LEADER OF THE HOUSEHOLD, BUT WHO ALSO KNOWS HOW TO SUBMIT TO THE ULTIMATE LEADER WHICH IS YOU! WE COVER THEM RIGHT NOW, PROTECT THEM FOR ALL HURT, HARM, OR DANGER. AND WHILE WE ARE PRAYING FOR A MAN AFTER YOUR OWN HEART, WE PRAY THAT YOU CONTINUE SHAPING, AND MOLDING US INTO WHO YOU NEED US TO BE FOR THEM! IN JESUS NAME-AMEN🙏🏽